We often get asked how we’re able to get out and explore the world around us, especially with two young kids. The answer is pretty simple: how could we not?
Over the past couple of years, we’ve learned that being in nature is not only good for our souls, but it nurtures our kids’ too.
We’ve also learned that it’s not always easy. In fact, you can almost guarantee that 100% of the time there will be challenges! Someone will be in a bad mood, not get their way, be in desperate need of a nap… you name the challenge, we’ve experienced it.
There was the trip to the Santa Cruz KOA earlier this year, when our youngest Harvey literally cried hysterically for 2 hours non-stop after we told him he couldn’t have some dinosaur candy sugar bomb at the general store. (Trust me when I say that standing firm against a 3-year-old for two hours was pure torture.)
There’s the fact that on EVERY SINGLE TRIP, our oldest Levi will ask for a toy. At every place we go. (Usually followed by a fit.)
It’s pretty much a guarantee that one of the kiddos – or both – will refuse to walk any of the hike. (For the record, Steven is now a pro at hauling kids on his shoulders for multiple miles!
And we also know that each trip requires so much work, not just in preparing to leave, but particularly during! Managing never-ending food requests, finding misplaced toys, combing clumps of dirt out of hair… adulting seems to never end.
Now, the list of things that can — scratch that, WILL — go wrong is never ending. But, it’s always short-lived. The memories that are made in these moments leave a lasting impact on all of us.
Like waking up to sleepy, happy faces every morning, all four of us snuggled together tight to block out the cold.
Like finding a place to picnic, where the kids enjoy their PB&J staples while Steven and I indulge in cheeses, charcuterie and olives.
Like watching our kids meet new friends, discover new animals, or simply tell us how much they love camping with us.
The fun will ultimate outweigh the negatives every time. It would be easy for us to say maybe next time. But you already know that’s not our motto! As challenging as it can feel, the hiccups eventually go away. And to be honest, those challenges don’t come just because you’re exploring something new. Let’s face it, we’d still be dealing with minor meltdowns at home!
You just have to keep a positive attitude and practice some major patience.
So, what’s holding you back from exploring with your kids? What lessons have you learned along the way?
